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Friday, June 13, 2025

FDIA

    Munchhousen's by proxy (MSP) is now known as a fictitious disorder imposed on another (FDIA). I've seen real life examples of this. A parent or caregiver can be unhappy, and they induce or exaggerate symptoms in another person to generate sympathy or take out their negative emotions on that person. It's very hard to catch. It was first published on in 1951. 

    Munchhousen's tends to generate high health care costs and unnecessary procedures. It is underdiagnosed because it is not well known and there is a high rate of countertransference. Patients with Munchhousen's have high mortality rates due to symptoms imposed on self and others.

    The term was introduced by someone named Asher to describe individuals who intentionally produce signs and symptoms of a disease and who tend to seek medical or hospital care. 

    In 1977, Meadow used the term “Munchausen syndrome by proxy” to describe children whose mothers produce histories of illness to their children and who support such histories by fabricated physical signs and symptoms, or even by alter laboratory tests. This term is also used to refer to elderly or disabled person and/or dependent adults who signs or physical symptoms are created by a caregiver and whose laboratory tests were altered.

    Munchausen syndrome has sometimes been referred to as “hospital addiction”, “polysurgical addiction,” or “professional patient syndrome".

    The problem lies closer to home. These people may not be aware of the patterns. The hospital systems waste money on diagnostic bullshit and overmedicalization. DSM vagueness. Perfectionism in medicine. 

    FDIA is a relatively rare behavioral disorder. It affects a primary caretaker. The person with MSP gains attention by seeking medical help for exaggerated or made-up symptoms of someone in their care. As healthcare providers strive to identify what's causing the child's symptoms, the deliberate actions of the parent or caretaker can often make the symptoms worse.

    The person with MSP does not seem to be motivated by a desire for any type of material gain. While healthcare providers are often unable to identify the specific cause of the child's illness, they may not suspect the parent or caretaker of doing anything to harm the child. In fact, the caregiver often appears to be very loving and caring and extremely distraught over their child's illness.

    People with MSP may create or exaggerate a child's symptoms in several ways. They may simply lie about symptoms, alter tests (such as contaminating a urine sample), falsify medical records, or they may actually induce symptoms through various means, such as poisoning, suffocating, starving, and causing infection.

    People with MSP are often health care professionals and are usually very friendly and cooperative with providers. They demonstrate a great deal of concern and may have Munchausen syndrome, a disorder in which they repeatedly act sick when they do not actually have any physical illness. 

Possible warning signs of MSP The child has a history of many hospitalizations, often with a strange set of symptoms, the symptoms get worse outside of treatment settings, the symptoms are reported worse by the caregiver then the patient, the symptoms don't agree with the testing, the family has a history of unusual illness, samples do not match the genetics of the patient, or chemicals appear in the bodily fluids of the patient. 

    The exact causes of MSP are not known. Researchers are looking at the roles of biological and psychological factors in its development. A history of abuse or neglect as a child or the early loss of a parent may be factors in its development. Some evidence suggests that major stress, such as marital problems, can trigger MSP.

    Diagnosing MSP is very difficult because of the dishonesty that is involved. Doctors must rule out any possible physical illness as the cause of the dependent's symptoms before a diagnosis of MSP can be made. A thorough review of the child's medical history, as well as a review of the family history and the parent's medical history may provide clues to suggest MSP. 

    The first concern in MSP treatment is to ensure the safety and protection of any real or potential victims. This may require that the child be placed in the care of another. In fact, managing a case involving MSP often requires a team that includes a social worker, foster care organizations, and law enforcement, as well as doctors.

    Successful treatment of people with MSP is difficult because those with the disorder often deny there is a problem. In addition, treatment success is dependent on the person telling the truth, and people with MSP tend to be such accomplished liars that they begin to have trouble telling fact from fiction.

    Psychotherapy (a type of counseling) generally focuses on changing the thinking and behavior of the individual with the disorder (cognitive-behavioral therapy). The goal of therapy for MSP is to help the person identify the thoughts and feelings that are contributing to the behavior, and to learn to form relationships that are not associated with being ill.

    This disorder can lead to serious short- and long-term complications, including continued abuse, multiple hospitalizations, and the death of the victim. (Research suggests that the death rate for victims of MSP is about 10%.) In some situations, a child victim of MSP learns to relate getting attention to being sick and develops Munchausen syndrome themselves.

Trauma Bonding

Going back to Stockholm Syndrome, traumatic situations, and perception...

    People with trauma tend to flock together, especially with similar trauma. Beyond that, tight emotional bonds can form. Brothers in arms, survivors of abuse, people who went through a journey or event of some kind. 


Arson



    I have trouble remembering a time when Arson started a medication or increased one. Usually the opposite. That's how he was different then Prichards. Prichards and Assmussen were bad in combination, for damn sure. But they answer to God, like everyone else. Assmussen's out of practice but be careful about Woodruff Road. 
    I'll keep reminding people. So at least the smart ones can learn about toxic masculinity, Bullshit CBT, and bad psychiatry. I know there's something to learn here. I know because of all the drugs, all the people, and all the bullshit ideas. I know because I have trouble functioning. There's something to learn. 

Weaving


    Spidey webbing up a storm... cobweb here, one obber der, anudder under here... ebbywherez a cobweb... WEBTOPIA! Now! ... embroidering in some messaging...

Thursday, June 12, 2025

 


Webbing

Spidey web obber di werld!!!! ... or mayybe just blanket falls park wit leaflets.

Hey Brownelle

 




Well, tell me do you think it'd be all right

If I could just freak out tonight?

You can see I'm in no shape for conniving

And anyway, I've got no asylum to go

And you know it might not be that bad

You were the best shrink I'd ever had

If I hadn't discharged this place months ago

I might not be alone!

Tomorrow we can walk around that unit

And let the techs chase us right through it

The past is gone, but a dx might be found

To take its place

Hey Psychiatry

Hey Psychiatry

Hey Psychiatry

Hey Psychiatry

And you can trust me to overthink

And to take the pills I found

And if you don't expect too much from me

You might not be let down

'Cause all I really want is to be with shrinks

Feeling like I'm crazy too

If I hadn't discharged this place months ago

I might be here with you!

Tomorrow we can walk around that unit

And let the techs chase us right through it

The past is gone, but a dx might be found

To take its place

Hey Psychiatry

Tomorrow we can walk around that unit

And let the techs chase us right through it

The past is gone, but a dx might be found

To take its place

Hey Psychiatry

Hey Psychiatry

Hey Psychiatry

Hey Psychiatry

Well, tell me do you think it'd be all right

If I could just freak out tonight?

You can see I'm in no shape for conniving

And anyway, I've got no asylum to go

And you know it might not be that bad

You were the best shrink I'd ever had

If I hadn't discharged this place months ago

I might not be alone!

Tomorrow we can walk around that unit

And let the techs chase us right through it

The past is gone, but a dx might be found

To take its place

Hey Psychiatry

Hey Psychiatry

They took my meds

Well, there's only one thing I couldn't dread


Karaoke


I'm so happy 'cause today I found my friends, they're on the net
I'm so struggling, that's okay, 'cause so are you, we broke our mentors
Commitment papers are surely coming for all I care and I'm not scared
write my blog posts, and that's ok cuz I've found shrinks

Yeah, yeah
Yeah, yeah
Yeah, yeah
Yeah, yeah
Yeah, yeah
Yeah, yeah
Yeah

I'm so wordy, that's okay, I shaved my rhymes and I'm not sad
And just maybe I'm to blame for all the drugs, but I'm not sure
I'm so excited, I can't wait to touch and stare and I don't care
I'm so corny, that's okay, my will is good

Yeah, yeah
Yeah, yeah
Yeah, yeah
Yeah, yeah
Yeah, yeah
Yeah, yeah
Yeah!

I like it, I'm not comin back
I miss you, I'm not comin back
I love you, I'm not comin back
I chilled you, I'm not comin back
I like it, I'm comin back
I miss you, I'm not comin back
I love you, I'm not comin back
I thrilled you, I'm not comin back

I'm so happy 'cause today I found my friends, they're on my phone
I'm so ugly, that's okay, 'cause so are you, we'll bitch and moan
discharge mornin' is everyday for all I care and I'm not scared
Light my mind up in a daze 'cause I've found shrinks

Yeah, yeah
Yeah!

I like it, I'm not comin back
I miss you, I'm not comin back
I love you, I'm not comin back
I chilled you, I'm not comin back
I like it, I'm comin back
I miss you, I'm not comin back
I love you, I'm not comin back
I thrilled you, I'm not comin back

Dear Joe



Dear Joe,

    I almost forgot. Would it be alright if I brought Peytlin a half dozen soccer balls to remember me by? I know how sweaty patients put her and Addison in heat. I wouldn't want to let my birds suffer. 
So whaddya say? Can I punt a few into the courtyard? I'll even sign them for her. Give Elle my love. 

Ball 1: I love you, ashes
Ball 2: I love you knot, Spidey
Ball 3: I love you, vlad
Ball 4: I love you not eddie
Ball 5: I love you when you're not hiding soccer balls, jess
Ball 6: I love you oddly, madly, creeply Jenn

Yours,

Ashes

Wake Up Little Snoozy



Wake up Little Snoozy

Wake up, little Snoozy
Wake up, little Snoozy

We've all been sound asleep
Wake up, little me’s and weep
The appointment's over, it's four o'clock
And we're in trouble deep

Wake up, little Snoozy
Wake up, little Snoozy

Well, what are we gonna tell our counselor?
What are we gonna tell our Doc?
What are we gonna tell their staff when they say
"Ooh, la, la"?

Wake up, little Snoozy
Wake up, little Snoozy

Well, we told our counselor that we were tired of men
Well, Snoozy, baby, looks like we’re stuck with them

Wake up, little Snoozy
Wake up, little Snoozy
We gotta go home

Wake up, little Snoozy, wake up
Wake up, little Snoozy, wake up

The inpatient visit wasn't nearly so hot
It didn't really have so very much of a shot
We fell again, our goose is cooked
Our reputation is shot

Wake up, little Snoozy
Wake up, little Snoozy

Well, what are we gonna tell our counselor?
What are we gonna tell our Doc'?
What are we gonna tell their staff when they say
"Ooh, la, la"?

Wake up, little Snoozy
Wake up, little Snoozy
Wake up, little Snoozy

Jess

She's breaking into hospitals again. Talking up psychiatrists. Why does she get to be the communicator? 

Riposte

    Vell, vhat did you expect? I have to be with my own kind! You cut off the A-, now I can't socialize. So flappy I can hardly stand. I hope Small liked zee flowers...

Going for a Crawl...


    Cwazy Bat. He's hanging out with the Conestee hatchlings again. Dudent ebben like dem. Then he says he wants to fly by Home Freako. Fwed's been gibbing him trubble at di beach. Sneaky Gulls always coming up with something. Dey don't like Vlad berry dutch. Time to go for a crawl...

Dear Joe

Dearest Joe,

    Oh, the thrill of the pursuit. Psychiatry has never looked so good. Do you power lift metaphorically? Exercising the brain is so rewarding. How are my friends? I'll have to visit again. You know how much I love family. Prismally speaking. You'll be happy to know that life on the outside has gotten quieter. 

    I'm walking the road less raveled. Sometimes it's a bit stringy. Sometimes threads lead in unpredictable directions. I hope the campus hasn't caught fire. You'll say hi to Jenn, I'm sure. The cat's doing well. 

    Say, you think you could hook me up with some maroons, for old time's sake? You never know when I might need to come pay my respects. I'll be in touch. Promises to keep, and meds to take before I sleep

    Warmly,

    Ashes

How Helping Works

    In the military, they like to say that a combat operation never goes exactly as planned. The same thing is true for everyday life. My life has not gone as planned. For damn sure. However, losing a battle does not mean losing the war. I certainly hope I don't have to start spreading rumors about dating my psychiatrist to get it into people's heads that spreading lies about professionals is not wise. I like different kinds of people. They can all contribute in slightly different ways. I've known all sorts of people. 

    I do have moral responsibilities. I'm trying to build something positive here, while preparing to return to doing some accounting. I feel a moral duty to warn people about forced medication, drug cocktails, overmedication, medicalized perfection, toxic gender stereotypes, toxic CBT, and abuse in Greenville County. You can question my methods. You can question the results. You can't question my mission. 

    Sometimes life involves different emotions. For the benefit of people with low emotional intelligence, I'm going to start writing about what I believe emotions teach us. We are emotional animals. it's hardwired in because emotions help us learn about the world. 

Past Reflections