People say I'm strange, I think life is strange. I do find it confusing why people are so interested in what I do. I used to just blend. People didn't notice me so they didn't say anything. Then I start talking and wham! Suddenly what I say and do is so important. It is definitely easier to nod and smile but its empty. It's easier to go with the program. But I don't see the point. Then it gets into damned if you do, damned if you don't. Gotta be just right. I most definitely am not Robin Williams. I was simply a fan. He made me smile. Yes, I believe in God. Buti don't like to litigate God. I don't like to argue about what the Bible says. I don't think God is meant to create conflict. God is meant for loving thy neighbor. Just doesnt seem as common as its made out to be. Then I find everyone wanting to convert me. I guess by wearing my emotions so openly I invite that. My anger invites it. I get overwhelmed by a lot of attention. But for so long I kept quiet. It's hard to stay quiet.
I'm going to have to stop keeping track of politics. It's gotten too difficult. Well... maybe just pay a little less attention. Life is about more then arguing.
Boundaries are limits that individuals set for themselves and communicate to others, defining acceptable and unacceptable behaviors in relationships, work, and personal life. They are essential for maintaining mental health, fostering healthy relationships, and preserving personal well-being.
Types of Boundaries:
Physical Boundaries: These relate to personal space, touch, and comfort levels.
Emotional Boundaries: These involve respecting and managing one's own emotions and not taking on the responsibility for others' feelings.
Intellectual Boundaries: These pertain to respecting individual thoughts, beliefs, and opinions.
Financial Boundaries: These involve setting limits on how much time, money, or resources are allocated to others.
Workplace Boundaries: These relate to respecting work hours, responsibilities, and expectations.
Importance of Boundaries:
Mental Health:
Boundaries help individuals protect their time, energy, and emotional well-being.
Healthy Relationships:
Boundaries clarify expectations, reduce conflict, and promote mutual respect.
Personal Safety:
Boundaries help individuals feel secure and safe in their interactions with others.
Autonomy and Self-Respect:
Boundaries enable individuals to maintain their independence and assert their needs.
Clarity and Communication:
Boundaries provide clarity in interpersonal interactions and reduce misunderstandings.
Setting Boundaries:
Self-Awareness:
Understanding personal needs, values, and limits is crucial for setting effective boundaries.
Clear Communication:
Clearly expressing boundaries to others is essential for ensuring understanding and respect.
Consistency:
Maintaining boundaries consistently, even when challenged, is important for establishing them effectively.
Self-Care:
Practicing self-care and prioritizing personal needs helps individuals maintain their boundaries.
