Thank you for Tuning in to DarknessUntilDawn...

A warm shout out to the Good Eggs... the ones with Common Sense. 

M.issed I.n P.art

"Another head hangs lowly

Child is slowly taken

And the violence caused such silence

Who are we mistaken?"

But you see it's not we
It's not MY... prismaly
In my head, tears are shed
They are FIGHTING
With their PILLS and their PADS
And look now, we're depressed!
With our meds, With our meds
They are cryin'

In ERs, ICUs...
Can you see... ??
What's in your meds??? in your meds???
Zombies?

Another brother breakin'
Docs are taking over
When the violence causes SILENCE
We must be mistaken.

It's the same ICU
Since I last came to you.
In my head, hospital beds
They're still fightin'!
With their pills and their tests
And their ECTs, less and less

They are TRYIN'

In my head... hospital beds
Zombie, zombie, zombie, hey, hey
What's in your head, in your head
Zombie, zombie, zombie, hey, hey, hey
Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh
Hey, oh, ya, ya-a

 

25 years since that first coma in the ICU.

George

Enmeshment, in a psychological context, refers to a blurring of boundaries between people, often family members, leading to over-dependence and a lack of individuality. This can result in difficulties with autonomy and independence, impacting family dynamics and relationships. 

Key aspects of enmeshment:

Blurred Boundaries:

Enmeshed relationships lack clear personal boundaries, making it difficult for individuals to distinguish their own needs, feelings, and boundaries from those of others. 

Over-involvement:

Family members become overly involved in each other's lives, often to the detriment of their own autonomy and personal development. 

Lack of Autonomy:

Enmeshment can lead to a loss of individual identity and the inability to make independent decisions or pursue personal interests. 

Over-dependence:

Individuals in enmeshed relationships may become overly dependent on others for emotional support, validation, or guidance. 

Examples:

A parent who constantly interferes with their child's decisions, a child who feels they must always make their parents happy, or family members who feel responsible for each other's happiness and well-being

Taxes

Almost ready to mail taxes. I overpaid. Rather ridiculously. I have 3 pieces of furniture to assemble. Some picking up to do. Father's day is coming up. Thank God. Am I right?